1. The giver. This is the selfless lover who
constantly gives in the relationship, usually because they believe
they're not good enough for the relationship or their partner, or they
believe they don't provide enough value to the relationship and try to
compensate for it by giving more towards the relationship.
2. The taker. This is the kind of partner who
constantly takes in the relationship *always wants things their own
way*. This person believes they bring so much into the relationship just
by their mere existence that they don't need to do anything at all to
make their partner happy. People who think of themselves as a trophy
usually end up as this kind of a partner.
3. The pleaser. This kind of a lover goes out of
their way to please their partner. Call it unconditional love or
pleasing love, but just watching their lover smile makes this person
happy and fulfilled. They get pleasure out of pleasing their partner,
even if it means giving up on something they want or like.
4. The controller. The controlling lover appears
very caring and loving, and seems extremely attentive to your needs. But
somewhere along the way, you may start to feel stifled and suffocated
by their subtle demands or restrictions. They use manipulation and
emotional blackmail to make you dependent on them, and before you know
it, you feel trapped and isolated from the rest of the world.
5. The selfish lover. This kind of a lover always
thinks twice before giving something or doing something nice for their
lover. They always ask themselves "what's in it for me?" before they do
anything. And they *discreetly* want the bigger or better thing all the
time, be it the bigger slice of pizza that both of you pretend not to
notice, or while making plans for the next vacation.
6. The doubter. This kind of a lover never
completely trusts you. You always have to go out of your way to make
them feel secure and happy in the relationship. They feel threatened by
your friends, or by anyone else who seems to give you the slightest hint
of attention. They constantly doubt you or sneakily try to snoop around
in the hope of catching you red-handed.
7. The actor. The actor is a tricky person to read,
because they behave like they really care about you when you're around.
They constantly try to show just how concerned they are about you and
your happiness, they ask you if you want something, but in reality, they
don't ever do anything to make you feel better. It's all talk and no
trousers.
8. The drama seeker. This kind of a lover wants to
experience something new all the time, be it a fight or a romantic
getaway. They don't like comfort or monotony. They'd rather pick a petty
fight or do something dramatic than just let the relationship go along
its calm course.
9. The straying lover. This kind of a partner gets
bored very easily and they always want more. They may seem excited for
the first few months of the relationship, but as soon as the infatuation
stage passes by, they get distant or boring. And they'd seem more
interested in impressing someone else.
10. The overlooker. This kind of a partner sees your
flaws, but they choose to overlook them or put up with them because
they don't want to change anything in the relationship. They'd rather be
a punching bag who deals with their partner's affairs or lack of
affection by turning a blind eye to it, rather than confront or walk
away from it.
11. The helper. The helper constantly tries to help
their partner become better, either by supporting them or criticizing
them. They find their own meaning to life or happiness in life by
supporting their lover and helping them achieve something. This kind of a
partner behaves like a martyr who sacrifices their desires to help
their partner achieve theirs, but they always remember the sacrifices.
And at times, they may even use it to emotionally manipulate their
lover.
12. The compromiser. This kind of a lover doesn't
mind giving in for the happiness of the relationship. They give in
easily in any argument or discussion just to please their partner, or
avoid a fight. They may seem like they have no desires or wants, and are
happy to accept the decisions of their partner.
13. Possessive lover. The possessive lover may love
you a lot, but they have a very hard time trusting you. They constantly
feel like everyone else in the world is out to separate the both of you,
and every person of the opposite sex is trying to hook up with you.
This kind of a partner may love you, but they have a hard time trusting
you unconditionally.
14. Jealous lover. Does your partner ever feel
jealous of your success or your achievements? The jealous lover may love
you a lot, but they always want what you have, or more. If you buy a
few new expensive perfumes, your jealous lover would want to buy
perfumes too. And if you get promoted at work, your partner may start
sulking about how under-appreciated they are at work even if they never
felt that way before you got your promotion!
15. Material lover. This kind of a lover is more
focused on wealth and luxuries than anything else. They want everything
the material world has to offer, and they don't care what their partner
does *behind their back* as long as they have money and the good life.
16. The loyal lover. A loyal lover is the one who
sticks with their partner through thick and thin. They have moral
principles and they don't go looking for opportunities to cheat on their
partner. They're emotionally and sexually satisfied and don't stray at
the first stolen opportunity.
17. Passionate lover. This type of lover is almost
always on a sexual high. They're extremely passionate and are proud of
their sexual prowess. They spend a lot of time making love, and they
love having a good time in bed and pleasing their partner. They're full
of passion and they can't imagine a life where sexual intimacy takes
second place behind anything else.
18. Brooding lover. The brooding lover is the kind
of lover who's lost in their own world almost all the time. They want
space and love being by themselves for several hours, and at times, they
may even get annoyed if they don't get enough space to be by
themselves. They're distracted or lost in thoughts, and even if they
seem happy in the relationship, they almost always seem bothered by
something.
19. Enthusiastic lover. They're always enthusiastic
and love trying new things all the time. They're not boring, and at
times, they're even reckless. They love creating memories and are always
involving their partner to try a new experience all the time.
20. The romantic lover. This kind of a lover is a
true romantic. They woo you and impress you with romantic gestures all
the time. They're really sweet and loving, and don't miss any
opportunity to display a grand gesture of love and romance!
So which of these 20 kinds of lovers do you see in yourself and your partner?
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